We were invited to a local Malay wedding in our simpang on New Year's day. What a special way to start the year!
Kids were all dressed in Baju Malayu:
We have been to one local wedding before so we were familiar with some aspects of the wedding. For example, as soon as we got to the venue/house, men and women were separated and were led to one of the tents to sit down.
We were seated there for a while but I could see it would be a while before we eat (it is the main part of the wedding for the guests) so I asked some of the ladies who were dressed in the family colour (wine red) baju if we could look inside the house. They looked very serious and talked to each other for a while but came back and said "no problems, follow me!"
Inside the house was set almost the same way as the outside tents but more for close families and friends. But somehow we got to sit there for the entire ceremony (nicely air-conditioned and kids could run around and play!)
There was a long prayer then we were told to "makan=eat" lunch.
After lunch there was this special candle ceremony for the groom:
And family photo taking sessions - girls were welcomed to be in it :)
We were wondering when the bride would show up. But we were told she won't be coming to the house! They were all to hop on the buses and visit her at her house!! They were very welcoming so off we went.
The groom and the grandparents were in this nice wedding BMW:
Whoever came in their own cars were back in their cars and headed out:
It was only 10min away (phew!) and we got to see the arrival ceremony of the groom:
Loud local music was played:
Inside the house the beautiful bride was waiting for the groom with cute candle boys and flower girls.
And finally they got to walk out together to greet everyone outside:
It was certainly an experience for all of us. We even received a wedding gift each - an IKEA blue tray... very modern?